4. While you might miss out on some situations, never be aggressive or pushy or follow people around. Be friendly and approachable, but always let them suggest playing. Yes, there are some women who are passive & won't even give you a clue ( I met a very cute blonde here one night , dancing, talking, flirting but nothing happened because I wasn't aggressive & she was passive ) but in the long run, that's the way to be.

5. Be friendly to, but don't hit on, the women who are there to meet women. No matter how highly you think of yourself, you'll never get them to change.

6. Dress nicely, be clean, don't overdo cologne or deodorant, don't drink a lot ( or at all).

7. Decide before going what your interests are & stick to it. Don't feel desperate at the end of the night & try to get with women you wouldn't have gotten with earlier in the night. If you're not into BGS, don't join one at the end of the night; If not into certain types of women , don't start asking them at the end of the night.

8. Learn how to say " no thanks " tactfully to women you're not interested in.

9. Word gets around. One women may not be interested in you, but she may introduce you to another women who might be. If you're known as a nice guy, it might get around. If you're known as an ass, it will definitely get around.

10. This lifestyle is all about women having fun & getting pleased. They control things & have the final decision, as it should be. If the men happen to have a good time, that's great for us. If the women don't enjoy the club scene, there wouldn't be one. ( at least not one I'd want to be a part of LOL ). If you're an unattached single male. . .you need to read this if you wanna have a chance to score in this lifestyle